This blog provides commentary for discussion on the book "From The Frying Pan To The Jacuzzi: Gourmet Recipes For A Gourmet Relationship
Monday, October 1, 2012
LIVING YOUR RELATIONSHIP NOW
WHERE DO YOU LIVE IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP? You know, do you live in the past, lugging around all those resentments? Do you live in the past, wishing everything were as magical as it once was? Or do you live in the future. Once he gets that job, everything will be perfect. Once I quit drinking, then things will surely change. Once she finds the right combo of hormones and antidepressants, I can stop walking on eggshells.
WHERE DO YOU LIVE??
How about living in the NOW. Try it on for size, try it out for right NOW. Begin my soaking in who your spouse is right now, right now. Notice everything you can notice right now. Then make a decision. I will love this person right now. And loving this person right now may take you to a half a dozen nows. It may mean giving them a kiss you have been withholding because of the past. It may mean giving him or her a kiss NOW even it won’t lead to what you want it to in the future. It may mean giving him or her a kiss and saying “I’m going to make the best of our relationship right now” whether that means being cordial, loving, or perhaps being angry and letting the anger move you to being honest and real. So you’re not going to pretend any longer.
It is all about NOW. It is all you have in your relationship. So grab it.
Close your eyes and open the book (From The Frying Pan To The Jacuzzi), and point to a place on the page. Read that paragraph and live it now.
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